Greetings family and friends!
I miss you. I’m coming to terms with the fact that I miss you, however, and have decided that this in no way diminishes how much I appreciate this experience, just as the value of this experience in no way diminishes how much I miss you. Sometimes it’s hard for me to reconcile both of these things in my head, but it’s ok, I’m learning ;)
Things going on: exams are starting, but my personal exams don’t start till May 9th. To fill this new huge amount of time that I will (in theory) have from now until I leave, I have these things to do: study, finish a couple of papers, learn about the subtleties of parking at Emory, carve a block of wood, travel, read a few books, and have talks with a surprising number of people who keep saying “we should make time to talk”. Tada! :) That time has arrived.
I’ve actually had a few such talks already, and they’re quite interesting. Not precisely relaxing, I’d say, but rather stimulating. I always learn a lot, regardless of whether I’m doing most of the explaining or most of the listening. Thus far I’ve had talks with David, Obed, Ocansey, Dominic, and Obri. The first two are boys I know from UCC, and the latter three are seminarians. Things we’ve talked about: African Traditional Religion, how ATR relates to Christianity,
You’ll notice that all the people I’ve had these talks with so far have been men, and there are many complicated and perhaps unknown reasons for that. Giftie’s theory is that women simply have less time to hang out and make new friends, because they have more responsibilities in their home lives. Also, there are more men than women at UCC, though I think that all of my classes are roughly even in terms of gender. The seminary won’t have women until next year. Finally, lots of guys talk to me hoping to date me. I try to avoid such friendships-hoping-to-be-dates, but occasionally I fail. At any rate, I don’t date anyone here, and just constantly hope that such friendships don’t become awkward, since they rarely just dissolve ;)
A brief word on friendships in
Now then, as for the topic of Appreciating the Taste of Your Own Teeth vs. Congratulating Mediocrity: this is actually a discussion that arrived in my mind a month or two ago, just from hearing various Ghanaians comment on the “state of affairs” from different perspectives. You see, there’s an Akan/Fante proverb (which I unfortunately forgot to look up for it’s precise wording) that’s about appreciating the taste of your own teeth: that you should appreciate them, because it’s all you have, and all you ever will have. You should learn to like their taste, or you’ll just live dissatisfied. This proverb is said to people who are having trouble particularly with their families, because especially here there’s no real way to escape your relatives. They’re the people who always have tabs on you, and who you will one day need to depend upon. You’d better strive to make things sweet between you.
However, when we first discussed the proverb in my Fante class, the metaphor was extended to the way that Ghanaians feel about
The counterargument came up in another class, where a professor was talking about how much people have to put up with here. Ghanaians truly laud sacrifice, and in official events when things go wrong, people often say, “well, you know, we are a developing country.” But, Professor Anum asked, couldn’t
Now then, putting all of that behind us, there’s something that Ghanaians are dying to tell the world which I feel I should pass along. I’ve had several conversations concerning this at the University, and witnessed many more references to it elsewhere: Ghanaians want the world to know that not all of
Of course, they’re a mixed group. Some of them are happy that the colonizers came because they brought Christianity. Some are angry that the government tries so hard to attract foreign aid when they could be focusing upon their own assets. Some were happy that the government spent so much money to buy new cars for chauffeuring diplomats at the anniversary celebration, because it made
Interesting tidbit: in most of the graphic representations (relief sculpture, drawings) of the continent of
Speaking of which, when my host parents went to the
And now for some brief commentary on African Traditional Religion and how it relates to Christianity here. (By the by, I now have some understanding of Muslim ethics from my class, which I very much enjoyed, but am in no position to comment upon how Islam has interacted with ATR). So, strangely, even though there are plenty of ATR practitioners around, I mostly learn about it from Christians. Even my ATR professor is a Christian (a Methodist). Here are the things that most of them want to impress upon me:
1) Hierarchy. In African Traditional Religion, there’s the Supreme Being, aka God, Nyame (Get Satisfied), Ewuradze (Almighty), but even though God is always considered, always in the back of people’s minds, and always a part of their speech patterns and vocabulary, God is very far away. So many legends and folktales describe God as being up in the sky, distant. It’s not necessarily that God is uncaring, but who is clean enough or important enough to ask for the attention of God? So, as intermediaries to take care of small matters and bring big matters farther forward, God created smaller gods. People can appeal to smaller gods, and if they have sufficient authority and are sufficiently appeased, they will help. There are hierarchies within the gods, however, and if one god isn’t working for you, you can try a more powerful one. It doesn’t even have to be a local god, but can be a famed one from another region. All of them, however, work for and only with the authority of the Supreme Being. Evil and/or self-serving forces of varying powers can also work against you, however, and charms and ancestors also somehow fit into the hierarchies of good things, depending on one’s culture. People consider these hierarchies to be very neat, handy established things: a brilliant, elegant system, if you will, though from the outside (and perhaps having far too little information) it doesn’t look that way at all too me ;) But the hierarchy is highlighted in people’s minds.
2) Fear and discipline. Ghanaians also want me to understand the fear and discipline that was inherent in ATR practitioners. You see, if you committed a taboo or a crime in traditional society, it was believed that your own god would strike you dead. There were harsh punishments for everything, and certain desecrations (cutting down certain trees, for instance) were unthinkable because they were also spiritual beings. Many Ghanaians lament the fact that Christianity carries no such immediate punishment for crimes, and they attribute modern lawlessness and lack of decency to the loss of ATR in people’s lives. People in traditional societies also practiced divination more, and so people believed that if they did anything wrong, they would certainly be found out. A Catholic friend of mine here even thinks of fear as the primary reason why he’s a Christian – he does good for fear of not going to Heaven – but I don’t think this is the case for everyone.
3) That it really works. Many Ghanaian Christians have stressed to me that they believe that African Traditional Religion is true, and that it works. Even though they’re Christians and are prohibited from doing certain things, there are also certain things they can’t deny. When people don’t get cut by machetes, when people get unexpectedly healed, when people know things they shouldn’t – Ghanaians believe that they witness these things regularly, and they stress to me that they know I don’t understand, that I can’t quite believe, but that it’s real. Witches, evil eyes… these terms are technically European, but they’re used here to explain to me many strange things. And Ghanaians believe in both the good and the evil forces. It’s really interesting.
Ah, I would love to write more, but I am out of time! The power, and therefore the internet, are both about to go out, and I couldn’t write this one too far in advance ;) Forgive the shoddy writing.
I love you all! Thank you for caring! Happy graduation,
With very much love,
Rachel Rose
4 comments:
I miss you too. We were in QLSP's final celebration, and Max was remembering my time at Guilford, and made a great deal of the Bible study that I was a part of as evidence of my...something. I didn't have the heart to tell him that once you left, Tristan and I stopped meeting :).
I think what you say about how the world views Africa is really important. I'd be interested to hear more about what it is you say in classes in these kinds of discussions. Love you so much, and thanks for the graduation wishes!
Rachel,
Fascinating insights. I am sorry that I may contribute to the "poor is Africa" lament because when people ask about how you are doing, in addition to telling them how much you love your family, the culture, and the education you are receiving there, I do note that you have developed malaria, are guarding against worms, and face challenges of lack of electricity, washing yourself and your clothes in a pail, etc. I do, however, remind people that it wasn't so long ago in the US that (at least rural) folks had outhouses, wells, and no electricity. (I think it took the TVA to bring electricity to rural Southerners.)
I am sorry I didn't get to talk to you this week; I hope Daddy will call you today, but I am at work. It's finals. We did get to spend yesterday with Hannah and also saw most members of the Thompson clan. Dolon will be greatly missed.
And for you, my precious Rose: maa fyew.
love forever, mommy
Rachel,
I understand that Madagascar is indeed part of Africa. I actually "google imaged" Africa, and all the maps that popped up (on page one) included it. Now I am wondering about Mauritius. Is it considered to be in Africa? It's about 800 km s.e. of Madagascar. Remember Andy from Mauritius, who came with Eiki from Japan, to have Thanksgiving with us? Eiki loved the Japanese persimmons.
I do remember ^_^ they were very nice. While I don't think that Africans have any particular wish to deny someone else a claim to African identity, Obruni issues aside (maybe I can talk more about that next time), I think that Mauritius and Reunion are just so small that they barely show up on a map which must show the whole of the rest of the continent.
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